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  Her responses will be something like “Yeah, so much” or “Yeah, so good” If she is saying more than that, you are on the right track. This method works well even with women who have a difficult time talking dirty or feel slightly uncomfortable doing so. From here on out you are continually stimulating her and building her arousal.

  You can optionally escalate things further by saying:

  “How much do you need/want it?”

  Both are great to use. When you get to this point, be more forceful in your vocal intensity because her arousal is very high and you want to elicit an even larger response from her. You don’t want to scream, but you want to use a powerful voice. The most important idea of this skeleton is the idea of the buildup. If you did your job right, she will say things like:

  “I need you to fuck me so bad” or “I need you inside me right now”

  Now you are free to oblige and continue with the dirty talk, or do as I do and tease them even further BUT continue with the dirty talk. Always continue with the dirty talk, no matter which option you choose.

  When she nears orgasm, ask her:

  “How bad does my [good girl, cum slut, etc.] want to cum for me?”

  Then tell her to cum for you and she will, with torrid alacrity.

  Teasing Frenzy

  Here’s a basic framework that I often like to use when I’m initiating a long, drawn-out tease. It is perfect for conditioning her to crave your dick and the pleasure you are capable of giving her. Here I utilize the tease for intercourse, but it can be applied to oral or even foreplay if you are talking dirty to her just to get her aroused for later.

  It’s you utilizing dirty talk in three steps and telling her:

  Step 1] That you know what she wants

  Step 2] How bad she wants it

  Step 3] How eager and dirty she is and that she is willing to do anything to get it

  Short Example:

  Start with a slow build up. Begin with carefully slamming her against the wall (be sure not to allow her head or neck to impact anything), pressing yourself against her hard, but then giving her gentle kisses. The contrast between this soft and hard dominance is very arousing to women. Tell her to take off her clothes because you love the way her body looks and makes you feel. Don’t just say “I love the way your body makes me feel.” Be more vivid and specific than that. Command her to get on the bed, or push her onto it.

  “On your hands and knees on the bed”

  Trace your fingers over her skin and mention how smooth and silky it is, and how it feels to your fingers. Tell her how beautiful, pure, and innocent she looks. Then follow it up with:

  “But I know you want me to fuck you like the slut you are. You’re my slut, and I’m going to fuck my slut’s pussy” Grab her hips suddenly, as if you were going to start pounding her by slamming her ass into your lower abs, but instead use the head of your penis to tease her vaginal opening and clitoral glans.

  “You love it when I tease your throbbing clit”

  “You love feeling my dick tease your moist and juicy hole. You need it teased just like this”

  [Place your penis at her opening and rest it there to create burning anticipation]

  “I might slip inside you right now”

  “I know my slut wants it, tell me!”

  “I can feel you aching to have my hard cock thrust into that wet pussy”

  “You want it bad don’t you?”

  (as you trace your penis head around her opening, and momentarily dip it in)

  “That slut pussy of mine is throbbing and dripping wet for my dick. You’re such a dirty slut for me; you’d do anything to get this dick deep inside you.”

  “Beg for it and I might fuck you like you deserve to be fucked!”

  (Slap her ass)

  “I don’t think you want it bad enough, you aren’t being slutty enough for me, stick that ass out. Prove that you need my dick”

  (Enter her slowly, and then proceed to ravish her)

  (As she is about to orgasm):

  “Show me how hard my slut can come for me. Come like a good girl.”

  Pleasure Crescendo

  This simple responsiveness skeleton is designed to amplify her awareness of the stimulation you are providing and build desire using anticipation. It can be used for nearly any type of stimulation you provide, although I don’t recommend it for oral sex. Extensive dirty talk and oral sex don’t mix well, obviously.

  This one starts off similar to the dirty crescendo above; in fact it can be used before this one and stacked on top of one another.

  After or during the later stages of teasing her mercilessly:

  Get her to express her hunger for pleasure by saying something like:

  “You like that don’t you?”

  It doubles as a command to her subconscious mind. It is important to say it immediately after you stimulate her. You are telling her that she likes it, in the form of a question. When she responds, amp things up even more by adding more detail to your phrases.

  “You like it when I ___ your ___?”

  When she responds:

  “You love getting your [pussy, tits, etc.] [form of stimulation] like that don’t you?” “You feel it even stronger now”

  Make sure you vividly describe how you are stimulating her. This is importance because like the above example when she feels your leadership it causes her to surrender to you and focus on her pleasure in the exact manner you tell her to. So if you say you feel it stronger, she will do so. What she feels and how much is only limited by your imagination and how well you lead her mind.

  As her arousal increases, you can continue with vivid descriptions, give her commands and/or suggestions. I like “linking” her pleasure in various ways. For instance, when she is very aroused (like she is now in this example):

  I’ll continue stimulating her clit (for example) and give her a kiss and say

  “This is how good your clit feels when I kiss you baby”

  “You’ve been a very good girl for me, feeling all that pleasure in your clit like that when our lips meet”

  “Every time I kiss you, you will feel it in your clit…so fucking good isn’t it”

  Now you set up the “Yes Ladder” which causes her to reaffirm everything you say, sends her deeper into sexual trance and make your words even more real.

  “Your clit loves being deliciously stroked like this, doesn’t it?”

  “Every time I stroke you like this and kiss you like this, it makes you crave me”

  “You feel so open to me right now, don’t you?”

  “You love making yourself this open, this vulnerable to me”

  “I have complete control of your body right now, sending all this pleasure through it, don’t I?”

  “I control your pleasure…just the way you like it.”

  “I know your pussy is hungry…aching…throbbing for my cock to fill it up…so deep…”

  “Show me how excited you get when I kiss you and stroke your pretty little clit like this”

  (This phrase elicits increasing her arousal via the kissing/clit link you setup)

  “It makes you want to cum for me”

  “Show me how excited that makes you”

  “You want to cum so hard for me, like a good girl would because you are my good girl”

  The closer she gets to orgasm, show her just how in control of her pleasure you are.

  “Now Baby I want you to show me how good you can cum for me”

  As she begins to orgasm from your clitoral stimulation, come up with a phrase you will say every time she has an orgasm like “Cum for me” or “cum like a good girl.” This links that phrase and your voice to her orgasm.

  “Cum for me baby! Cum like a good girl. Give me your orgasm, all of it. Harder baby, that’s it! Good girl.”

  When she is having an orgasm, everything you say becomes real. You say harder, she cums harder. You say cum for me, she cums for you. Lead her, and your relationshi
p will have significantly more ups than downs. The sex, obvious will be unlike anything she has ever experienced. She will crave you more than anything she has ever craved because you constantly give her powerful, unique orgasms and emotional experiences.

  “I love it when you come so good like that for me”

  This is praising and rewarding her good behavior which will make it much more likely she will repeat it in the future. Also, you just linked your voice to her orgasm which I will show you how to leverage in the sequel booklet.

  This creates the association of her being very aroused and feeling it in her clitoral glans whenever I kiss her in the future as long as I continue to strengthen that association. Create your own associations and have fun with this stuff.

  CONCLUSION

  Dirty talk is in your blood my brother. The filthiness of dirty talk is but one integral part; its primordial power source lies in your commanding and assertiveness. Why? Because commanding and assertion lie at the heart of dominance, they are pure expressions of it. You can say things to her that no other person on Earth can because of your sexual power and thus responsible for her being able to fully, ruthlessly, and relentlessly sexually express herself. She needs you to be that dominant. Filling her with mind with dirty talk is a potent reminder of just how assertive you are. That’s what makes her pussy glow: your primal masculinity.

  Etch this into the essence of who you are: Women want to get fucked by a guy that can control them, knows how to control himself, and can keep them safe yet have fun with them at the same time. She has to know and feel with certainty that your sexual power and passion could engulf her own. You own her pleasure; with deadly courage and conviction. Don’t ever question that.

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  LIST OF MANLY RESOURCES

  Site You Should Devour:

  AaronSleazy.com and AaronSleazy.BlogSpot.com

  --Rational thinker with top-tier advice on sex, women, and dating. Beyond taking the red pill. Beyond played out metaphors.

  TheRawness.com

  --His tag line sums it up nicely: “Human nature and sexual politics”

  Cure Nice Guy and Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms

  --Will change your sex life and having your woman giddy, radiant, and gushing all over you. If you listen to nothing else I say, check out these resources.

  Books/Products:

  No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover

  Minimal Game by Aaron Sleazy

  Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

  Masculine Movies:

  Star Wars 4-6 (Any Hans Solo/Leia interaction)

  Dredd (2012)

  Mad Men (TV Series)

  Nearly anything with Clint Eastwood

  A Streetcar named Desire (1951)

  A Wild One (Brando)

  Californication (TV Series)

  Hud (1963)

  The Hustler

  The African Queen

  Casablanca

  Vicky Christina Barcelona

  In the Heat of the Night (1967)

  Last of the Mohicans

  Towering Inferno

  What? You thought dirty talking was only about techniques and tactics? No, dirty talking is beyond that my man. Your dirty talk speaks volumes about how you perceive yourself. Thus the resources, which I use, peruse, and present to you.

  I’ll leave you with this quote from Frank Herbert:

  I must not fear.

  Fear is the mind-killer.

  Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.

  I will face my fear.

  I will permit it to pass over me and through me.

  And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.

  Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.

  Only I will remain.

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  Want a sneak peak of my Advanced Cunnilingus Guide?

  Excerpt #1:

  The One and Done Method

  It begins slowly and crescendo's into a massive orgasm, after you have her teetering on the edge for a while. She'll BEG you to let her explode. And once you do, make sure your head doesn't get crushed between her legs and nearly pass out like I almost did. Hold her hips down. You have been warned.

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  Step 1: Heighten Sensations

  Your focus at this stage is to bring her awareness to her pleasure. For the time being, use slow teasing and sensate focus via dirty talk.

  Sensate Focus via Dirty Talk

  Dirty talk can be used in a variety of ways but for now just use it to direct her sexual energy where you want it. For example, let’s say you want to tease her clit without even stimulating it yet. Dirty talk is great for this. As you are licking or massaging her nipples say something like,

  “You can almost feel that in your clit can’t you?”

  “Imagine the pleasure spreading there when I [touch/lick/kiss] your nipples.”

  If you say this with anything other than 100% conviction, it will fail. If she doesn’t respect you enough sexually (AKA you’ve given her a multitude of mind-blowing sexual experiences), it will fail.

  Or when you are kissing her legs, tell her to “send” or the let the feelings “travel” to her clit or vulva.

  Or you can tell her to focus her attention wherever you are (instead of where you’ll end up). If you’re kissing her inner thighs, ask her (this is a question with an assertive tone, btw),

  “You like it when I kiss you there, don’t you?”

  And then kiss her there again to cement her focus on the pleasure you are providing. Only ask her when you see/feel her enjoying it. Also, I’m not saying to run your mouth the entire time you are “downtown,” but dirty talk is very effective when used correctly.

  Let the Slow Teasing Begin…

  Start with kissing her and traverse her body with lustful lips and hands. Spend lots of time at her favorite hot spots, especially if she loves breast and nipple play.

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  Key teasing strategy: “aim” all sensations back to her vulva and tease the surrounding area to get the attention of all of her “pleasure nerves.”

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  Step 2: Crafting Your First Lick So She NEEDS and Craves the Release

  Now I bet even you are ready to dive in…and dive in you shall. Place some kiss and gentle love bites along both her inguinal creases

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  Step 3: Stalking Her Orgasm: The “One and Done” Method

  Remember when I mentioned how to give her an orgasm so strong that she just wants to cuddle up and fall asleep afterwards…

  BAM! Here you go.

  Everything up until this point has allowed you to tease out a big juicy orgasm. Notice how you moved from her inner thighs (less sensitive) to her clitoral glans (most sensitive)…AND you took your sweet time.

  You don’t need to go this slow this often because you want to give her a variety of oral ecstasy with your tongue and hands. Take your time and tease her by stimulating the less sensitive areas, as she becomes frustrated, move to a more sensitive area, always saving the clit for last. The time you take to move from a “less area” to a “more area” is a key to the big juicy orgasm.

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  Excerpt #2:

  Using Oral Sex to Trigger Vaginal Orgasms During Intercourse

  The Basics

  Never mention the word “orgasm” to her at all when you begin stimulating any of these spots. The mind is a powerful tool. She has the ability to block an orgasm from happening simply by believing it is not possible.

  Locating Her Vaginal Hot Spots

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  The Actual Technique

  Basic Idea: Giving her oral sex with your while you […]

  Step 1: The Exploratory Tongue

  Step 2: The “Vaginal Clock” Massage Spots

  Summary:

  This massage, performed often can give a woman wonderful sensations and often, orgasms. Giving her or
gasms by stimulating her vagina and her clitoris simultaneously awakens vaginal sensations that carry over into intercourse.

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  Here’s a small sample of what else you will learn:

  o 4 Mistakes That Kill the Power of Her Orgasms

  o How to Increase Her Ability To Have Powerful Multiple Orgasms (This technique also makes her arousal happen faster and easier in the future)

  o Give Her A "Double Orgasm" (Yes, two orgasms exploding and ripping through her body simultaneously . . . most women rarely experience this kind of pleasure)