Orgasmic Dirty Talk Page 5

  o “I’m your little whore/slut/cumslut/ [insert your favorite]”

  o “You own my pussy”

   Make her count to a certain number before she can have an orgasm

   Make her wait until you have an orgasm so she can have hers with you

  B] Expand her pleasure

   Simply tell her to “Cum harder! Harder baby, cum for me”

   Tell her you are about to cum and to “keep cumming for me, I’m going to cum too”

   Tell her some variation of “Let it spread through your entire body”

   Get her to spread or invent her pleasure

  You: “Where do you feel it?”

  Her: “In my pussy”

  You: “Where else?” or “Where in your X?”

  (she will invent it or “send” pleasure if she doesn’t feel anything)

  Her: *gasping and struggling to get out her answers in between her pleasure*

  You: “Yeah, you feel it in your [repeat what she says] don’t you?”

  (say this hypnotically, with strong vocal cadence)

  You: “You also feel it in your [clit, ass, pussy]. Spread all that pleasure to your [repeat location] like a good girl”

  Be careful when you ask open ended questions, you must be leading strongly or she will snap out of sexual trance and start thinking too much which will break her focus on her pleasure.

  C] Make her ask for permission to cum

  When you notice her getting really close to orgasm make her ask you for permission to cum. I set this up ahead of time if I’m with a girl I know that I can consistently give orgasms to by saying something like “Don’t you dare cum without my permission.” The first time you use this, don’t let her cum the first time she asks “Can I cum?” Tease her by saying things like “Can I cum, what?” (Implying “Please”, or “Sir” or “Master”) or “No. Not yet, hold it until I tell you to cum.” Or you can tell her “You can cum when I cum”

  With many women, after you do this, you can continue stimulating them and simply tell them to cum and they will. A lot of women will try to slip an orgasm in without you noticing, so you must be on your A-game with this technique.

  5] Leveraging the Contrast Between Erotic Language

  Boil erotic language down and you have two types: dirty and sensual/romantic. They are highly effective when used separately, but even deadlier when used as a team.

  A lot of stimulation techniques like licks, thrusts, fingering, etc. cause heightened arousal due to the switch or contrast that occurs from one rhythm/speed to another. Mental arousal that occurs via the contrast created by switching from dirty to sensual is no different.

  Direct dirty talk example:

  “I’ve been thinking of fucking you all day. I couldn’t wait to tease my dirty little slut. You get dripping wet when you think about having my dick inside you, don’t you? Your tight pussy needs my dick, and loves to make it cum. I’m going to take your body whenever I want and have my way with you.”

  Very direct sensual example:

  “Damn baby, I love having my dick inside you. I feel how much you love me, [hold her close] I adore you, I would NEVER let anyone harm you. I’ll always keep you safe baby. Forever. I will fuck you forever, just the way you need it, giving you so much pleasure.”

  Logic goes right out the window during sex and women who are getting good sex surely aren’t paying attention to your grammar, sentence structure or if what you said makes any sense. The two examples I provided above, don’t flow very well, but during sex, women focus on emotional intensity from you for increasing their arousal. The more emotional or dominant you are, the more her arousal increases in proportion. Some of your best erotic language “successes” will be chocked full of logical contradictions.

  So don’t even worry about smooth transitions between dirty and sensual talk. She needs both and it will rarely matter how she gets them as long as you provide them both. In sexual trance, everything makes sense to her due to how it mirrors her own chaotic emotions and desires.

  Example of effective contrast language:

  You: “You’re so wet for me, you must have been thinking all day about how my dick feels when I first slide inside you. I’m going to fuck the shit out of my slut’s juicy pussy”

  [Pick her up and throw her carefully, but forcefully onto the bed and pause to revel in her beauty]

  You: “You look so sweet and innocent, so beautiful. But I know, DEEP down, inside…you want to be my nasty girl”

  You [deep and hypnotic]: “I love being inside you…I love your pussy so much…this pussy is so tight, I might split you open when I ravish you”

  Her: *verbally responds while playfully feigning resistance*

  You: “Shut the fuck up”

  (grabs her throat and fucks her even harder)( NEVER her windpipe, just her carotids)

  You: “I would never hurt my sweet girl, I love my good girl too much.”

  Dirty Messaging

  Dirty talk doesn’t have to be limited to what you say out loud. You can use technology to assist you in giving your lady mental foreplay. Mental foreplay is the most potent arousal catalyst that exists because her mind knows exactly how she likes to be stimulated best. Love letters, dirty notes, emails, and text messages can be used to get and keep her aroused all day so that when you actually have sex, she will nearly past out in pleasure from the anticipation she’s built. Mental foreplay makes your job of arousing her almost too easy.

  Sending her dirty messages versus talking dirty can be more beneficial. It’s less embarrassing/difficult for her (if she’s the shy type), you can escalate the intensity and anticipation of your messages over time, your messages are instant, and she can go back and read them over and over until she is writhing in her chair thinking about you. See how useful technology is! It allows you to plant seeds of you and your sexual power into her mind.

  Dirty Love Letters

  These are only for the worthy ones, if you are writing love letters to your one night stands or fuck buddies…re-think your relationship strategies. It doesn’t need to be long or poetic…just make her the focus of the letter. Get creative and write it on aged paper (burn the edges or something). The fact that you took the time to write a (dirty and/or sensual) letter in the age of internet speaks volumes about your adoration for her, in her mind. Mail it to her, or hide it in a place she checks often.

  Dirty Notes

  Use scrap paper or post-it notes to leave dirty messages for her to find. Stick it to her phone, in her purse, on her refrigerator, in her jewelry box, etc. At some point, she will find the note, think of you and imagine just how much you crave her body. Right there she has planted your carnal seeds of desire deep into her mind. Now she’s thinking about your cock, your touch, your smell, and how much she’s starting to become addicted to your body.

  Dirty notes can be effectively used for all types of relationships from casual to serious.

  Emails and Text Messages

  They are the most heavily used in my arsenal. I mostly use emails for longer narratives I sometimes create…breaking the story of me and her into several emails. You can send long series or short series of emails describing each thing you want to do to her, like:

  Email #1: The minute you walk through the door I’m going to run my hands slowly along your thighs grazing ever-so-slightly between your legs. I’m going to softly cup your face in my hands and give you a kiss that sends waves of pleasure though your body. Those work clothes will soon hit the floor.

  Email #2: Your wonderfully naked body, so soft and supple. I’ll tease you by placing my lips dangerously close to your hardening nipples, letting you feel the warm air from my breath before kissing your breasts. You’ll feel my hands making their way down to that pretty and oh so hungry pussy of yours.

  Email #3: I’d tease your moist opening by tracing around it with my fingers. After you moan and writhe on my fingers, I’d slowly dip them inside your wetness and make you look me
in the eyes as I thrust my fingers deep into your favorite spot. I’d get harder hearing you moan for my cock before I even take my clothes off and the thought of making you suck your juices off my fingers come to mind.

  End each email with a cliffhanger…making her want more with each successive email. This is a perfect time to create sensations you want her feel. For instance you want her to have more feelings vaginally? Then you craft your emails saying all the things she will feel there when you do X. Then you simply make her email fantasies come to life by actually doing the things you said you would do…her mind will play out the email and invent the sensations. The beauty of the female mind. This little technique can be utilized in many ways: introducing her to anal, nipple orgasms, sensitizing her lips, getting her to love giving you oral. Frame everything as her pleasure and reward her for being your good girl.

  With emails and texts you can be explicit as you like or just vividly describe things to her in a tame manner. Make sure you setup an email that hard to trace back to you (and her as well). Have her setup an email like [YourFirstName]sDirtyGirl@gmail.com

  Then you can send her a text like “check *that* email for a gift”. Even this will cause her to get horny at reading it because she will learn to associate that text message with mental arousal from the previous dirty emails you sent her. Since some business use key loggers or monitoring programs, be careful with emails and stick to sending texts to her personal cell phone.

  My text messages tend to be short, powerful, and full of vivid language. I start off slow and ramp it up as the day goes on. I keep me, the things I’m going to do to her, and her pleasure in response to those things at the forefront of her mind.

  Increase Her Sexual Responsiveness

  Dirty talk functions mainly as a way to increase her sexual responsiveness but specifically aiming for responsiveness in such a direct manner has some wonderfully powerful effects, as you will see. The theme you will notice through all of these is using dirty talk to highlight what you are doing. This has the synergistic effect of strengthening the effect of your dirty talk as well as powerfully linking all the bliss she is experiencing to you; it gets stronger the more you use it. The best sex she will ever have comes from when you create very strong emotions in her during sex. The stronger the emotion, the stronger the connection.

  1] Increase your dominance and highlight it using dirty talk

  Highlight your dominance using dirty talk: “You love it when I own your pleasure. It makes that pussy wet for more.” Immerse her deeply, but safely into your mental and physical strength. Let her feel it. Pull her hair, bite her, slap her ass, and tell her how much she loves when you take control.

  Phrased differently: Pay attention to which of your phrases, vocal inflections, and behaviors cause a heightened response from her. Then highlight it and make it mentally stick by usin:g

   More vocal intensity

   Describe the phrase/behavior in greater detail

   Deep hypnotic repetition

   Say dirtier things along the same vein

  2] Increase sexual tension using long, playfully drawn-out anticipation

  Highlight it using dirty talk. Shibari or Kinbaku is very useful for this. Talk about how wonderfully frustrated she is and how only you can provide relief…the relief she craves and needs. Talk about how her hungry pussy craves your dick. I even tease a woman for a few minutes each day, making her crave having me inside her. For instance, tease her the whole week, getting progressively closer to putting yourself inside her while talking dirty in her ear then fuck her sometime that weekend. Tell her she’s not allowed to pleasure herself until you do it. Progressively tease her each day, but always pull away.

  The day before you have intercourse, stick just the head of your penis inside her, tell her she doesn’t want it bad enough, and make her jack you off while getting her to imagine you fucking her. Make her confess how badly she craves your cock.

  Lay on top of her while she’s masturbating you so it simulates sex as much as possible. I’ve had women have an orgasm just by stroking me while I talk dirty in their ear, no genital touching whatsoever. That is responsiveness. Own her orgasms, she wants that. Work on constantly increasing her submissiveness and responsiveness to you.

  See below for more ways to utilize sexual tension

  3] Tease her mercilessly

  Make love to her entire body:

   Run your fingers through her hair, giving it a slight pull if the desire possesses you

   Touch her body EVERYWHERE except her favorite hot spots

   Touch her inner thighs dangerously close to her clit, but ignore it while “floating” back and forth near it with your caresses

   Tease the nape of her neck, the soft spots behind her knees, the inner crease of her elbows

   Trace lines down the sides of her rib cage and her back with your fingertips

   Tease until she must have you, tease her until she’s so aroused that it’s frustrating her to not have release

   Place your hands barely on her favorite hot spots but don’t attempt to stimulate them yet. Make her aware of the fact that you have your hand there, but not doing anything with it. Tease her until she gives a sigh of frustration, when she does, give her dominant eye contact and tell her to “ask nicely like a good girl” or “say please” with a devilish grin on your face. Make it fun.

  Now I’m not saying taking take 3 hours every time you have sex, but I am saying to convey to her that you are tuned into exactly how her arousal works. Do this marathon teasing and marathon sex at least once a month. Her body needs to be warmed up, at least until she’s so addicted to you that her mind starts to give her more “foreplay” than you ever could. Make your job much easier in the future by putting in the “hard work” now. Once she’s aware that you know how much pleasure she deserves AND that you can give it to her any time…the addiction and responsiveness starts to solidify. She’s starting to trust and respect your sexual power much more deeply.

  4] Have Her Masturbate Her Way to Responsiveness

  Another thing you can do is make her masturbate for you. Have her masturbate while you narrate a fantasy into her ear. Pick a fantasy you know she will respond powerfully to, something she has possibly mentioned before. Make the fantasy real. Bring it to life with vivid sensory rich detail. Make sure her imagination is creating the fantasy, in real life. You will be able to tell because she will be writhing, moaning, and going crazy with pleasure if so. If she comes, she is further convinced that she is responsive to you. Orgasms are the ultimate convincers. The final proof.

  The key to this section and your sex life, the one thing you MUST LEARN to be sexually powerful is the ability to tap into and utilize your masculine desire.

  The Magic of Responsiveness Skeletons

  Dirty talk is one of the best ways for making a woman highly sexually responsive to you and your stimulation. You want that because it implicitly demonstrates your sexual power to her and gives her the strong emotions she craves to experience.

  The benefits of responsiveness (if they aren’t obvious):

  -Powerful sensations and emotions evoked by your voice and touch

  -High sexual immersion and deep emotional connection with you

  -Makes real whatever you tell her to do, say, or feel (she allows you to create her sexual reality)

  Powerful stuff, right? You won’t believe any of it until you experience it for yourself. Without further ado, responsiveness “skeletons” you can steal and use for your personal gain. I call them skeleton because they aren’t scripts or verbatim lines for you to copy, but rather skeletons for you to flesh-out and see the underlying structures. Pay more attention to the language structure and order, implied emotional/vocal intensity, and the dominance rather the words of each skeleton, unless I specify otherwise.

  Basic Dirty Crescendo:

  During foreplay or before sex you simply ask something similar to

  “How does t
hat feel,” or “You like that, don’t you?”

  This gets her to focus on the sensations she is feeling and evokes a simple “good” or “yes” from her. She is being lulled into her own pleasure. Remember to TELL her questions assertively. Repeat this for a while as you are stimulating her, whispering it in her ear or saying it softly and hypnotically. Pay attention to her responses each time you ask. If she sounds more excited, say something like:

  “Yeah, having my fingers/hand/whatever does feel good doesn’t it?”

  Be careful not to overly repeat these so as to dilute its effect and end up sounding like you have no clue what she is feeling. After she is clearly more aroused, you repeat yourself with a few differences:

  “HOW MUCH do you like that?” or “TELL ME how much you like it.” if she doesn’t respond right away to the first question.

  Then say:

  “That feels SOOO good?” or “You like that SOOOO much”

  (You are pacing her reality, saying it with certainty. Of course it is feeling good, but asking focuses her mind and makes it that much more visceral)